Reality…er…Rocks? Well…

April 10, 2011 in hollywood, LA

Well hello there. I haven’t blogged in a minute, or a week, but hey, whose counting? :) I had to cover this ‘Reality Rocks’ event for work and had a couple interesting photo opportunities that I thought I’d share.

First, I had to get a coffee and came across this HUGE RICE KRISPIES treat. I’m still thinking about it…

The Myspace booth

Then I met this lady who turned out to be Frenchie from VH1′s ‘Rock of Love.’ I had no clue who she was, but she kept telling me she was famous. Hence the pic. All I could think was…whoa, homegirl is TAN and your dog better not attack me!

Randomly bumped into Ani Phyo, Eco-lifestylist and Raw Food Author. She is so sweet!!! And gorgeous in person. I felt guilty for eating meat when I talked to her though.. Veganism doesn’t agree with me.

And I LOVE Michael Maloney from ‘Extreme Makeover: Home Edition.’ This show always makes me cry like a huge baby. I’m serious.

Then, I had to get a bunch of kids to wear these Myspace badges. They were like, “Who is this random person talking to me?”

And nothing ends a Reality TV expo like some hand sanitizer! Especially when you randomly brushed past Ron Jeremy. Again, I’m serious.

Oh Snap! It’s Fergie Ferg!

March 11, 2011 in Acting, comedy, Events, hollywood, LA

Ummm…I met Fergie Ferg last night at the Chin Chin restaurant for an event for the “Look Like You Give A Damn” project sponsored by Nivea for Men. Josh Dumael and Fergie showed up to support their trainer, Don Brooks, who unveiled his meal system, the Matrix Meal System. Other celebs that were present included appl.de ap (Black Eyed Peas) and Dylan Walsh. (Nip/Tuck, Secretariat) Oh, and did I mention that I randomly saw my brother, Andrew, at the event? LOL.

I had no idea that Fergie would be there, and was just floored with how down-to-earth and kind she was! I mean, we talked for a short period of time, but she was loving the fact that I’m also a blogger and comedienne. Anyway, I’m not a name dropper, but thought that it was to be noted that she was super nice and had zero attitude. Here’s a pic of us, and the lighting is so weird, but whatever!

And just wanted to embed my favorite video from Fergie which is probably ‘Big Girls’ Don’t Cry.’ Simple and soulful. My fave.

Talking Writing, Digging from your Well, and Hollywood with Story Consultant, Jen Grisanti

March 4, 2011 in hollywood, Writing, Yoga

We all have a story. Whether its a quaint anecdote about how you used to make blueberry pancakes with your grandmother every Saturday morning or perhaps a story about the heartbreak you experienced after losing your first love, we’re all storytellers in our own way. When I tackled my first screenplay at NYU, I made about a billion mistakes and had no clue what I was doing, but the more I kept at it, revising and re-working the project, it got better. But the difficulty usually lies in how to full develop the story and characters as well as trying to find that nugget of truth that everyone can relate to, which is where the talents of Jen Grisanti come into play. Jen is a Story/Career Consultant, Instructor for NBC’s ‘Writers on the Verge, has covered shows at Spelling Television Inc. including Beverly Hills 90210, Melrose Place, and Charmed, and is a former VP of Current Programming at CBS/Paramount working on diverse shows from Medium, NCIS, Numbers, 4400 and Girlfriends.

But life led her on a different path once she embarked on her own business, starting the Jen Grisanti Consultancy Inc. in 2008 and she now uses her Entertainment Exec. experience to guide writers to shape their material, sharpen the pitches, and focus on their career goals. She’s helped her writers get staffed as writers on TV shows as well as selling pilots that have gone to series. And the woman had time to write a book called, ‘Story Line: Finding the Gold in Your Life Story,’ which I quickly read and thought it was the type of book you could read over and over again because you’d find something each time that would help you expand the depth of your story and characters. I was lucky enough to chat with this busy lady….

Hey Jen, how are ya? So, thanks for your time and let’s get down to it. You went straight from USC to working for Aaron Spelling, famed producer of ’90210′ and ‘Melrose Place.’ How did you get that job and what kept you there for so many years?
Hey there. Yes, I actually got my job at Spelling Television Inc. through The Friedman Agency, a job placement agency for people in the Entertainment industry. But Aaron Spelling is what kept me there. He was my mentor for 12 years. Climbing the ladder in Current Programming kept me on my toes doing the thing that I love most in the world, developing story.

Very cool. You don’t seem jaded at all. You’re quite positive and focus on the inspirational and positive in your book. What keeps you that way?

First, I’d have to say that I was born with a positive attitude or at least, this is the story my mom tells me. To stay positive, I do a lot of yoga, spinning, meditation and I go to church. All of these things refuel me. I feel like you have a choice in some life situations, you can be a victim and stay in the wound or you can get back up, learn from it and do better the next time. I choose the later.

So true. And, I love your HuffPo blog posts that are really not just for screenwriters. You focus on how everyone is a writer as long as they connect to others through their personal story. One of my favorites is “Your Story is Your Key to Success in Business Presentations.”
Yes, I believe that telling story is something we all do everyday, all day no matter what business we are in. By empowering the storyteller in all businesses with the tools to how to best tell their story, I feel that it will lead to success. Story is the key to connecting with your audience. This is why I choose to broaden my brand through these blog posts. It’s also considering the audience for The Huffington Post. You want to write something that will interest the majority in some way or as Jerry Weissman, whose book I site in this blog, you want to think about “What’s In It For You?” This phrase is referring to your audience.

Let’s talk about the post, “Finding the Gold in Your Story.” This seems to be the logline/theme of your book, ‘Story Line: Finding the Gold in Your Life Story,‘ right? You talk about It is about coming from an authentic place, connecting with your life experience and bringing your voice into your characters. With all your years at Spelling Inc, and CBS/Paramount, working with story development and writers, what do you think is the biggest mistake that first time writers make in terms of using their personal story to write a universal story?
Yes, writing a log line and the exercise Log Line For Your Life are definitely themes in my book and a large part of everything I teach about story. The mistake that some first time writers make is that they write from an autobiographical place versus understanding the process of adding fiction to their truth. This is what my book ‘Story Line’ is all about. I take you through the process of how you learn to draw from your emotional well for inspiration and then how you craft it into your character by using the truth of the emotion but fictionalizing it into the story of your character.

Finding your voice is something else I cover in my book. By writing a fictional story from a truthful place of emotion, you will find your voice. Knowing the value of your story within your writing and learning how to use it in a universal way versus an autobiographical should be one of the goals of the storyteller. When you write from an autobiographical place, you are too close to your story. It’s harder to understand how to hit the pivotal moments in your story if this is not how they happened in your life. Bottom line, our lives are not that interesting as they are. It’s when we learn to add drama and imagination to our life experience that the true magic begins.

Wow. I never really thought of it that way. Point taken and noted. :) So, let’s talk about rejection which is a touchy subject that a lot of us know about. What advice do you have for performers/writers/anyone who is not getting the feedback that they are looking for? What advice have you given for the writers you’ve worked with that may not have gotten staffed or their pilot didn’t sell?

My advice is to listen to the constructive criticism and work harder. Learn not to shut down. Be open enough to hear the criticism. The gift of being a writer is that you have the power through your writing to change anything. Directors and actors don’t have this power as much as writers do. So, if your spec is not hitting, figure out how you can writer it from a stronger place so that it does stand out on the executive’s desk that has hundreds of scripts to read.

Most pilots don’t sell. This is just the cold hard fact. So, when you write your pilot, you have to think of so many things but two important things are is this a concept that could sell in the current market? And, if this doesn’t sell, will it serve me well to get me staffed on the shows that I would like to be staffed on? Another tip I am learning that is helping pilots sell is does your central character have a strong back story that provides irony to the concept? Could you reveal that back story and have it parallel the professional story in your pilot? Examples of this are in THE GOOD WIFE, MAD MEN, BREAKING BAD and the BBC show, LUTHER.

For more about Jen, CLICK HERE TO GO TO HER WEBSITE or FOLLOW HER ON TWITTER.
(Part 2 of this interview will be posted next week)

Top 5 Ways To Know You’re in Koreatown

November 17, 2010 in comedy, hollywood, LA

Have you ever been in Koreatown or K-town in Los Angeles? If you ever get confused while driving in LA, and you come across the below signs, you may be in K-town.


Streets named after Ivy League Universities- I don’t know what it is about us Korean folk and the love of the Ivies, whether they be Harvard, Yale, Columbia, Brown, University of Pennsylvania, but there is definitely an obsession. This is obviously the perfect reason why there needs to be a street named after an Ivy League University especially for those of us that didn’t get into one. AHEM.

Double Language Signs- No, you’re still in LA. I promise you.  I talk about how Korean names don’t sound good in English in my stand up. Here is Exhibit A.


Driving Ranges in the Middle of the City- Korean Moms/Dads love golf, especially wearing expensive golf gear to go to the local driving range or golf course.


There is a Korean BBQ joint or Karaoke Bar/Club on almost every corner- Korean people love to BBQ.  We love fire-grilling beef, chicken, or pork and wrapping it in crisp lettuce, dipping it in red pepper sauce and devouring every delicious bite.  When I stopped being vegan, this was one of the first things I did: Go to Korean BBQ.  But remember that you will reek of meat when leaving the restaurant.


Places open 24 Hours. This is the norm in NYC, but not so much here in LA. Except in K-Town. Or Swingers on Beverly. It’s a weird, but comforting thought that IF you really want to…you could get a bowl of spicy tofu soup at 4:36 AM. Don’t you agree?

Meeting at G4 TV

September 29, 2010 in Acting, hollywood, TV Show

I had a meeting with the folks over at G4TV today. Um…if I had an on-camera job over there, would you watch?

BTW, this is the way that everyone thinks my name is spelled. The actual spelling of my name, Kathrien, is not logical and of course, was a mistake that the nurse made on my birth certificate. Oh nurse, were you drunk or something when you were doing my paperwork?

Love the feed!

A Little ‘Glee’ and Puck Action at Beso

September 23, 2010 in Acting, hollywood, Influencers, LA

Last night I ended up going to Beso for a BBM event and met Ashley of the cute fashion blog, Pursuit of Shoes, and um… we ended up meeting Mark Saling or “Puck” of my current favorite show, “Glee.” He was super down-to-earth, and was sporting that mohawk that LA guys seem to sport.


Here was the scene:
INT. BAR/RESTAURANT-NIGHT
Super crowded lounge filled with uber trendy people. Ashley and I spot Mark and immediately talk about our love of the show.
ME: OMG. Your rendition of Jigga’s “Empire State of Mind? was one of my favorite parts of the premiere.
MARK: Cool.
God, I’m cheesy. Whoops.

And next week is the infamous Britney episode and also…Paramore! DUDE..I’d love to guest-star on this show as the crazy Asian rap girl. Sigh. Check out the clip below.

When You Need to Get Away…

August 29, 2010 in hollywood, LA, Life

So if you’ve seen my stand up routine, you might know that my parents live with me. No, this is definitely not by choice, but by necessity. I made a joke out of something that has weighed down on my shoulders for quite some time now. I mean what would you do if your mom or dad called you one day and said, “We don’t have anything. We’re coming to LA to live with you.”

Your 20′s are meant for struggling, figuring out who you are, getting drunk or high, trying out different things that you’d probably like to forget, spending way too much time on social networking, dating lots of stupid bad boys or maybe just spending too much time on online dating sites, but mostly, it is the time for you to make mistakes. You’re no longer newbies, but you don’t yet have the responsibilities of a family or mortgage. Until you do. The thing is, I’m a family gal. Family has always been really important to me, but its hard to try to figure out your own path while your super conservative Korean parents live with and depend on you.

People are always surprised when I tell them about why I love to perform, do comedy, blog, or sing. And the truth is that…when I do those things, I don’t have to answer to anyone. I’m literally listening to my own voice without anyone telling me their opinions about who I should be and its definitely freeing.

I did write a manifesto about being positive, but it gets really hard sometimes. You worry all the time about what the future holds, you wonder if you will always have a positive outlook when things look really bleak, and you ask yourself if you’ll always be worrying about what will happen with your parents. Granted, I pray a lot which helps me, but that doesn’t mean that life worries completely disappear. I know that my family isn’t the only one that is going through rough times given our country’s Economic climate, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t get wistful when seeing my friends live that fun 20-something life.

Thank God for views like this though. Whenever life gets to be too much, I like to escape to places where I’m completely surrounded by serene beauty of nature. Then, my mind gets clear and all is well…for now. Ya heard?


Actress/Producer Tara Samuel Talks ‘Ruby Booby’ Movie

August 22, 2010 in Acting, hollywood


You may have already read the interviews with Jon and Andrew for the film, ‘Ruby Booby,’ so I’m pleased to introduce Tara Samuel, who has been tirelessly working as an actress/producer to bring this film into fruition. I had a chance to chat with Tara about how she got started, what inspires her, and what is it about ‘Ruby Booby,’ that got her to do fundraisers, readings, and promo shootings, to get funding started to produce the film. And without further ado…

How did you get involved with producing and acting in “Ruby Booby?” How’d you meet Jon?
Jon Rannells’s wife Kathryn Winslow is an award winning actress from Canada, with whom I had the privilege of performing in a theatre production called “The Affairs of Anatol” produced by celebrated Irish-American actor John O’Callaghan and directed by acclaimed theater director Sue Miner, in Toronto of 2005. Is was then that we discovered we were all planning to move to Los Angeles. Since arriving in L.A., 2006, Jon & I have been collaborating on scripts of his; always with the aim of bringing his work to the big screen. I am honored to be playing alongside Kathryn again; Jon cast us both in “Ruby Booby”.

Very cool. How did you develop the character of “Ruby Booby?” Are there aspects of Ruby’s personality that you had incorporated from your personal life?
Ha! I think all actors smile at this question. I’m pretty sure we would all agree that there are elements from our own personal lives that we incorporate into the characters we play. At least, this is the case for me! This is how explore the personalities of the characters I play; by relating to them through my own personal life experience. – As for developing the character of “Ruby” – I would say that she developed through the hard work of all of us; through the collaboration of Jon’s outstanding writing first and foremost, then through our group script-workshopping, then via Jon’s directing and Karen Stein’s make-up (the make-up really allowed me to feel like Ruby) – and then of course through the brilliant work of the other actors in the film. All of these elements served to develop the character of “Ruby Booby”.

What got you into the acting game? What got you into the producing game?
Acting – I have been in love with it as far back as I can remember. Playing other people is the my absolute favorite thing to do. As for producing – it is the natural bi-product of assembling a group of people I love, to tell a story we are all dying to tell, which hopefully has a delicious part for me to play! Producing is making your dreams come true. Everyone is a producer.

I love that line. So, what is the most rewarding part about being an independent producer and actress?
The most rewarding thing is to walk tall, knowing you are doing exactly what you most love to do on the planet, in exactly the way you want to do it, with the people you want to do it with. This is what every single person on the planet is meant to do.

The most challenging part about being an independent producer and actress?
Hmm – I would say…. to remember that every ‘bump’ in the road; every tricky relationship I didn’t predict; every ‘tough’ spot in the ride – these moments are all as important as every ‘high’ or ‘success’ I have. These are the parts of my journey that invite me to be inventive, creative an gracious. So actually – the most challenging parts are a gift.

Tell us about how you are looking to raise money to finish “Ruby Booby.” Why are you going about fundraising this way?
Ahh yes – fund raising. The reality is, that I am new to fund raising and have been learning about what to do throughout the course of my collaborations with Jon Rannells. (We have some phenomenally silly stories to share – everything from distributing pretty bags with pens door-to-door, to launching balloons in a park – this was a major, front page news event you realize – to throwing huge L.A. wearhouse parties….) You know, I have learned so much about fund raising. I have learned that fund raising is a great thing. It is exciting, adventuresome, community-building, and inspiring to many. It is a noble undertaking, and one should always be proud to raise funds for a cause. Fund raising is simply an assembling of resources. This is how you get your stuff made! So for Ruby Booby – this ‘online contributions’ is one more way that I am learning to raise financing…what I like to call a ‘Barn-Raising’. Three cheers to raising each other’s barn.

What are the types of projects that you hope to produce in the future?
My plan is to continue to produce and perform in feature films that provoke thought, undermine convention and celebrate humanity in every shape and form that it comes in, around the world. I will be on set in countries around the globe, for a long time. Love love love it.

I love your vision. So, tell us what inspires you to pursue this very difficult career?
What is difficult? Everything is difficult and everything is easy.

What inspires you most and keeps you doing what you do?
People do. I am one-thousand-percent driven to represent people everywhere, in all of their states of being, all: earnest, enraged, well-meaning, mis-lead, in-love, ashamed, elated, murderous, enlightened. I am in love with people.

Love it!

Interview with Jon Rannells, Writer/Director of ‘Ruby Booby’

July 23, 2010 in hollywood, Interview


I can’t believe that I’ve been in LA for a little over 4 years now. I came here with a few bucks in my pocket, 2 suitcases, and a dream. And I’m in the majority of course…This is Hollywood, baby! Its always heartening to meet those who are paving the way for their dreams to come into fruition by making things happen whether its writing an improv show, writing a screenplay and then directing it, obtaining financing, or just starting your own web series. I had a chance to chat wih Jon Rannells, writer/director of ‘Ruby Booby,” about how he got started, the state of the movie biz, and what keeps him going.

Tell us how writing “Ruby Booby” came about and how did you come up with the name?

Well I’d have to say in general that I’m continually drawn to ‘fish out of water’ tales. And I think ‘Ruby Booby’ – came from myself and my wife buying a little house in Highland Park, which is a predominantly Mexican neighborhood, just north of downtown L.A. Making the move from Toronto, Canada, just a few years ago, I found our new neighborhood both exotic and wonderfully cinematic. I kept thinking “I should really set something in this neighborhood.” And that combined with the need to use what was available to me because we had basically no money to shoot – resulted in the story of an introverted girl from the Deep South landing in East L.A. Ruby probably reflects how new and different the whole setting originally was for me. And the title came from – there’s an early scene in the movie where a group of young kids tease Ruby and when I thought of what they might chant to mock her – “Ruby Booby” – came to mind and then just started to feel like the right title for the film. Although most people of course assume it’s a porn when they hear it. But maybe that’s not such a bad thing. Although if you rented “Ruby Booby” expecting a porn – I imagine you’d be pretty disappointed.

Haha..so how does your background as an actor and comedian help you as a writer/director?

Well the reason I started writing, was that as an actor involved in different weekly workshops, I just became too lazy to look for material. Once you’ve gone through every scenebook you can find and exhausted every John Patrick Shanley and David Mamet play – it just became easier to write something before class and grab a willing actor to help me out in the scene. And maybe because of how that all started I think I have a good grasp of what constitutes fun dialogue and scenes for actors to play with. In terms of directing, I think or at least hope I speak the same language as actors and can easily get to the tone and performance the scene calls for. I know what it’s like to be on the other side, so first and foremost I try to setup an environment where everybody can have fun and do their best work without it feeling like ‘work’.

What is your favorite part of the storytelling process?

That’s a tough one. My first reaction is all of it. Filmmaking is a particularly challenging art form in that you have to be comfortable or surround yourself with people who are comfortable in many different elements of storytelling. There’s writing the script, which is fun because you get to envision the whole movie without leaving your house or getting out of your pajamas (in my case). Then there’s casting, picking locations, the music you want and on and on and on. It’s truly endless. And then when you edit you get to tell the story all over again. So at each juncture you get to mold the overall product. And I’ll let you know the end result, as this is my first feature but so far I’m loving all of it!

Very cool. So, what are the struggles and rewards of being an independent filmmaker in this day and age?

Well the rewards, besides the inherent satisfaction of getting your story completed and out to the public – I don’t yet know, because again this is my first go around. But the struggles? Where to start? Even if you’re given absolutely everything for free, completing a feature length film is still a herculean task. We did everything we could to limit locations, cast and shoot time – but inevitably, the story informs all those things and as much as you might fight it – you always end up biting off way more than you can chew.

Who are your filmmaker influences and who would you like to work with in the future?

It’s tough for me to really pinpoint who my influences are. I know the people who have blown me away over the years and I hope their stuff informs what I do. Every time I stumbled over a Jacque Tati or Jean Renior or Antonioni, I had to see everything they did. I know I’m drawn to a very strong visual sense. I like wide angles, tons of tracking shots and what I’d call a real “breathability” – lots of establishing shots in beautiful outdoor locations. In terms of contemporary North American filmmakers, the Coen brothers for me are in a class onto themselves. They’re just such a rare combination of a strong literary influence combined with a distinct and powerful visual sense. After them comes Wes Anderson. Myself and my friends must have watched Bottle Rocket a hundred times. I love everything about what that guy does. As to who I’d like to work with, I guess I usually think of that in terms of actors and cinematographers. I have a notebook where I keep a long list of people who have caught my attention over the years.

Love the Coen brothers. What are your thoughts on the current state of the Movie biz?

I think it’s both an amazing time and a very difficult time to be a filmmaker these days. On one hand, the whole model of production is being re-invented. With the technology of today’s digital high-def cameras, achieving something that’s pleasing to the eye is easier and cheaper than it ever has been in the history of film. It’s really the wild west out there. Everyone has a camera and everyone’s working towards making something. And now they can even edit the entire film at home. I don’t however know if films are any better right now because of that freedom. But I think there’s an entire new generation of filmmakers who will have an easier time expressing themselves and growing as storytellers and the best is yet to come. On the other hand, the financial model for films is in trouble and if you don’t have a tent pole Hollywood picture that makes it’s money at the box office, right now you’re going to have a tough time making money.
But if you don’t believe that a good story and execution has at least a chance of some attention – then it’s time to grab a tool belt and switch careers. And I don’t have a tool belt… yet.

What about international investors/financing? Have you gone that route to help raise funds for “Ruby Booby” and your other projects?

I don’t have a lot of direct experience with cobbling together international financing. In Canada it happens a lot whereby you do a co-production with another country. The funding in Canada is mainly from the government, so you start there and try to add to it where you can. But as a first time filmmaker I think, or at least for me, it would be too tough to sit in the middle of that before you’ve proven to yourself and others that you’re up to the task. I wouldn’t be against it in the future if the model made sense. I really strive however to not be locked into fundraising for years. I’ve seen a lot of friends wait forever for that last piece of funding to come through and I think I’d go crazy. I’m prolific in nature and kind of fickle, so for me I really want to think it, write it and shoot it even if its for two cents and then move onto the next one. Or so the dream goes.

Well, props to you for going for it. What else inspires you and keeps you doing what you’re doing?

I guess the easy answer is, I don’t know what else I would do. I’ve gone to great pains to make sure I’m not good at anything else. I think in this business if you have something to fall back on, you’re inevitably going to fall back on it. It’s a truly tough and at times miserable biz but if you think you have something interesting and entertaining to say, it’s nearly impossible for people and circumstances to squeeze that out of you. And I’m inspired by a lot of things. Locations in particular seem to get my engine going. I love driving around and seeing places that interest me. Maybe because I grew up in a city, great expanses are really pleasing to me. We shot portions of Ruby up in the grapevine south of Bakersfied. It’s just fields, fields and more brown fields – and I have to say I loved every minute of being up there. Maybe I’m meant to make Westerns. There’s an idea…

Thanks Jon! And for more information about Ruby Booby..CLICK HERE!

Kickin’ It with Hello Kitty at Haus of Shimmer

June 6, 2010 in hollywood, LA, MySpace Celebrity

I covered the Haus of Shimmer event last night for MySpace Fashion, here in Hollywood and felt out of place without 10 inch heels and loads of glitter makeup. This three-day event at Space 15 Twenty runs from June 4-6, featuring a pop-up shop with exclusive items from Chubby Bunny, Jessica Louise, Audrey Kitching, Lil’ Rae Cakes, and JapanLA (and upcoming Sanrio collaborations). Last night was the “Extreme Shiny Outfit Contest,” which I did NOT rock out. I did take a pic with Hello Kitty though. Totally obligatory..way Asian. LOL.
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